How far is too far?

 You are asking the wrong question because what you are asking is how much can I use this person without sinning.  Any use is sinning.  It means you don’t care about giving love at all but just taking physical pleasure.  The closer you get to whatever boundry you may have drawn, the more likely you are to fall. St John Paul II said the opposite of love is’nt hate, it is use.  Use goes beyond hate because it treats the other person as less than human.  Is that really what you want to do to the person you say you love?   The question you should be asking is What can I do to truly love and respect this person?

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